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Welcome, you can call Me

Lady Lovage

 I am a St. Louis-based Mistress with many years of experience both as a Lifestyle Femdom and Professional Dominatrix.  I specialize in total-fantasy fulfillment.   I adore role-play and relish in the opportunity for theatrics.  No fetish is too strange, no reference is too obscure.

Do you seek a naughty teacher, a flirty fiction favorite, a sadistic nurse, a nurturing Mommy, a strict slave trainer, a powerful Amazon, or even a cannibalistic housewife?  Let Me make your fantasy a reality.

Love the Lovage

BDSM Education by the Headmistress

It's time to take Slave Position Four and get ready to learn because you've been called into the Headmistress' Office.  

More about Lady Lovage

Headmistress

Headmistress

Headmistress

I am not the woman your mother warned you about; her imagination was never this good.
Formerly known as Lady Jaye, I have been a Mistress in one capacity or another since 2014.  I have dedicated endless hours honing My Craft.  Travelling far and wide to meet experts in every "field" of kink, I have voraciously soaked up all the information I can on BDSM, Femdom, and the Lifestyle.  I have hosted countless private fetish events and taught many topical classes.
In your personal journey of BDSM, you may meet many marvelous Mistresses.  But I assure you, none are quite like Me.

Hedonist

Headmistress

Headmistress

In the face of a World full of pain and strife, I choose instead to seek pleasure.  I call upon Bacchus, Lord of Earthly Pleasure, to lead Me into Temptation.  In the Chasm of Meaninglessness that can be reality, I believe that the only true pursuit that can be gleaned is the Pursuit of Pleasure.  The purpose of Pleasure is to make us aware of what is good.  The purpose of life is to seek that which is good.  
Seeking that which brings Pleasure to the most people possible in an ethical way is My number one pursuit in life.  As a Nihilistic Hedonist, I believe that the only thing worthwhile in life is the Pursuit of that which is Pleasurable.

Sadist

Headmistress

Ethical Slut

The greatest gift you can give to Me is your surrender.  When you suffer to Please Me, there is no greater an offering of submission.  Pain, be it physical, mental, psychological, or environmental, can be transformative.  It's in the moments in which you suffer when you learn the true girth of your soul.

Pleasure is sweetest when tis' paid for by another's pain.

-Ovid

Show Me your soul.  Lay yourself out raw for My inspection.  Break yourself apart and let Me hold you and put you back together.

Ethical Slut

Ethical Slut

Ethical Slut

Too often, a sexually liberated woman is viewed as unethical.  Proclaiming to be a Proud Slut often brings down the judgement of strangers upon Me.  As a Hedonist, I see no better good than the pursuit of pleasure.  However, there is a clear difference between ethical pursuit and unethical pursuit.

If play is unethical, I will not participate in it.  Consent is My number one concern in every scene I participate in.  Safety is a very close second.  If these two things are not established, I will not play.  If they are established, well then, let's go crazy, baby.

Womanist

Ethical Slut

Womanist

A Womanist, as first defined by Intersectional Feminist Alice Walker, is "a woman who loves other women, sexually and/or nonsexually. Appreciates and prefers women's culture, women's emotional flexibility ... and women's strength. ... Committed to survival and wholeness of entire people, male and female. Not a separatist, except periodically, for health ... Loves music. Loves dance. Loves the moon. Loves the Spirit ... Loves struggle. Loves the folk. Loves herself.  Regardless, Womanist is to feminist as purple is to lavender. "

Primal

Ethical Slut

Womanist

As a Pagan, I believe that there is an indivisible primal nature to humanity that we too often try to deny.  We call these Primal urges "darkness" or "sin."  But I believe that no urge or desire is inherently immoral, only the execution can be unethical.  

Whether My Primal Nature is animalistic, or nurturing, or sadistic, these are all expressions of Myself and My Soul.  All expressions of the Soul can be beautiful, and I am grateful to have a profession that allows Me such intimate access to these expressions.   

My Domination Style

"BDSM is Childhood Play with Adult Sexual Privilege...and way better Toys." -Midori

BDSM, first and foremost, should be FUN.  I firmly believe that fetishes are youthful expressions of our basest desires.  To deny these desires is to deny our true nature.  If you are a first-timer or newbie to Kink on My website, congratulations, you've already taken your first and most difficult step in your BDSM journey.  That step is the throwing off of societal expectations, accepting the parts of yourself you have denied for so long, and putting yourself out there in the fetish world.  If you have taken this step already, then already you are to be commended.  

There is no shame in our desires, no matter how strange others may find them.  You cannot change the things you want, no matter how hard you might try.  That desire will always remain, begging to be fulfilled.

Let Me help you bring your fantasies to life.  Let Me be your partner in expressing your fantasies, helping you bring into reality exactly the thing you've dreamt of for so long. Let Me be your safe space, the place you can express your deepest desires without judgement or shame.  With My expertise, you can be assured that you will be filling your fantasies with safety and your constant consent in mind.  You can lose yourself to your fantasy knowing that I will make sure that only the best good can come from the session.

All of My sessions end with aftercare.  With a background in Psychology, I understand that, often, getting to subspace and allowing yourself to be cared for and nurtured is the aim of a session for many clients.  I offer aftercare with no thought paid to time limits, as I genuinely enjoy providing aftercare.  

If you participate in a session with Me, you can rest assured that you are working with someone who is Professional without being cold, who wants to create a genuine experience, garner legitimate enjoyment, and foster a relationship based in mutual discovery.

If this all sounds great to you, then click the button below and begin your journey of discovery with Me today.

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